The Art of Safe Connection Somatic Tantra Retreat
For singles and couples who are new to Tantra
Learn Tantric and Somatic Tools to Create a Thriving Relationship with Yourself and Others
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Ubud, Bali · 16-19 May 2026
The Art of Safe Connection Somatic Tantra Retreat is happening in Ubud, Bali soon and you don't want to miss it!
Tantric and somatic practices and tools to help you feel safe in your body while connecting with others
Over 4 days, Ritam and Charlotte will gently guide you through practices and tools that will help you feel safe and at home in your body, maybe even for the first time, strengthen your relationship with yourself, and make genuine and safe connections with others.
Is This For You?
Is This Retreat Right For You?
This IS for you if…
You want to feel safe, grounded, and embodied in your body
You're ready to explore your sexuality beyond shame and performance
You seek genuine connection with yourself and others
You're willing to show up with vulnerability and openness
You most likely won't enjoy this experience if…
You're looking for a party atmosphere or temple night
You're not ready to work on yourself or be challenged
You expect quick fixes or spiritual bypassing
You're uncomfortable with consensual touch or somatic practices
YOUR TRANSFORMATION
After this unique and deeply transformative experience, you will…
Feel so safe in your body that you are able to experience pleasure, emotion, and sensation without shutting down or numbing out
Stand by your yes and your no, regardless of what others say. You will know how to listen to your body's responses and communicate what you actually want from love, not fear
Feel confident connecting with new people. You will stop second-guessing yourself and start trusting your own timing
Develop a deeper connection with yourself so that you start to trust your inner guidance and let your guard down around others. Trusting others starts with trusting yourself
Leave with real tools and communication frameworks you can use in romantic connections, friendships, and even family relationships
Experience what it is like to be seen, valued, and met by others exactly as you are without performing or holding yourself together
Consciously manage the shield you have built to protect yourself so it stops blocking the love and connection you are craving
Meet Your Guides
Hear It Straight From Ritam & Charlotte
In just one minute, Ritam and Charlotte share what this retreat is really about, what to expect, and why they created a space where real connection can happen safely.
A Note on Fit
You most likely won't enjoy this experience if…
You're looking for a sexually explicit retreat or a "temple night" experience
You want cathartic, intense, push-your-limits emotional release. This work is gentle, slow, and safe
You're looking for someone to fix you
You're not open to touch, breathwork, or being in community with others, even in a slow, consensual way
The Experience
What's Happening Over the 4 Days
Day One
Coming Home to Yourself
We slow down. Through breath, sensation, and simple movement, you will reconnect with your natural pace and learn to notice what feels like enough.
Day Two
Leading with Choice
We explore how clarity and boundaries actually create more connection, not less. You experience how pausing builds trust, how honesty does not break things, and how yes and no can be something you feel in your body rather than something you have to negotiate.
Day Three
Being Close Without Betraying Yourself
Closeness is introduced slowly, with full presence. Not to push anything forward, but to notice what happens in your body when someone is nearby. You explore how to be close without overthinking, how to receive without giving something back, and how to trust when enough is enough.
Day Four
Being Met As You Are
Something softens. Through small group experiences, you discover what it is like to be with others without adjusting who you are. You do not have to say the right thing, respond in a certain way, or offer anything back.
Investment
Retreat Investment
Duration
4 Days
Dates
16–19 May
Location
Ubud, Bali
Group Size
Limited to 30
Early Bird
€399
14 April
Save €200 compared to last-minute pricing
Regular
€499
28 April
Save €100 compared to last-minute pricing
Last Minute
€599
After 29 April
Full price - no further discounts
Limited spots available · Early bird pricing ends soon
What's Included
What You Get

4 full days of guided Somatic Tantra practice in Ubud, Bali · 16-19 May
Soma breathwork sessions, including partnered breathing, which is unique to this retreat and unlike any breathwork you've experienced solo
Active Tantric meditations using breath, movement, and sound - playful, dynamic, and deeply felt
Communication and boundary frameworks you can take into your daily life and relationships
Somatic body-listening practices, so you can trust your own yes and no, clearly and confidently
A gender-balanced group with conscious partner rotation and "divine selection," which is as magical as it sounds
Optional accommodation for 3 nights, perfect for those flying in from Australia or other countries
A safe, conscious community of people who are all here for the same reason: real connection
Our Approach
What Makes This Retreat Different
The Art of Safe Connection combines Somatic Tantra and SOMA® Breathwork in one carefully held experience
We combine these two powerful complementary modalities because connection is not only emotional, it is physiological.
Modality One
SOMA® Breathwork
Breathwork works directly with your nervous system.
Through guided breath journeys, your body learns how to:
- Come out of stress and overthinking
- Release stored tension
- Return to calm, grounded presence
- Awaken vitality without overwhelm
Modality Two
Somatic Tantra
Somatic Tantra supports:
- Body awareness and self-trust
- Clear boundaries
- Authentic communication
- Safe, embodied relating
Together, these practices help connection stop being something you try to do, and start becoming something you feel.
Your guides for this journey
Meet Your Facilitators

Ritam
Ritam creates structure that lets you soften.
Many people master success but forget how to feel.
As a Tantra teacher, transformative coach, and massage alchemist, I guide people from disconnection and overwhelm into presence, love, and vitality.
Trained under Ma Ananda Sarita and rooted in the Tantra Essence lineage, I weave ancient wisdom with a down-to-earth, experiential approach. My retreats welcome those who have achieved much yet feel something essential is missing - a sense of aliveness, intimacy, and peace within. They come seeking rest and leave feeling alive again, grounded, open, and connected to life.
Through meditation, breathwork, energy flow, and somatic practices, participants melt tension and awaken the quiet pulse of joy beneath the surface. Each retreat unfolds as a journey from tension to trust, from separation to union. Safety and consent form the foundation, allowing everyone to explore vulnerability with confidence and authenticity. My facilitation blends clear structure with intuitive flow, inviting depth through playfulness and precision.
Having spent over a decade in the corporate and tech world, I understand the pressure to stay in control and the disconnection it creates. My work bridges science and spirituality, East and West, the masculine and the feminine - helping modern minds experience ancient wisdom in a grounded, embodied way. Even those skeptical of spiritual language find practical tools for awareness, embodiment, and joy.
I also work privately with women who are successful, capable, and often carrying too much. Many have lived in their masculine energy for years, leading, managing, and giving endlessly. In my signature practice, The Art of Receiving, through devotion and sacred bodywork, women find a space to rest, soften, and reconnect with their natural feminine flow. Through loving presence and conscious touch, they remember the pleasure of simply being and the beauty of being deeply seen and felt.
When awareness meets love, the body remembers how to trust life again.
Charlotte
Charlotte helps you feel safe enough to stay open.
For years, I lived in self-abandonment. I worked myself to exhaustion, gave endlessly, and mistook anxiety for love. On the outside, I looked accomplished, yet inside I was disconnected from my body and afraid to be truly seen.
I am a transformational coach, breathwork therapist, SOMA Breath facilitator, and somatic healing practitioner devoted to helping people reconnect with the most important relationship they will ever have - the one with themselves.
My turning point came when I realised that intimacy does not begin with another person - it begins within. Through breathwork, nervous system awareness, and somatic healing, I came home to my body. I discovered that love without peace is not love, that boundaries are devotion to self, and that safety is the soil where desire and trust can finally grow.
Today, my work supports people in feeling safe in their bodies so they can open to real connection - with themselves, with others, and with life. I combine scientific understanding of the nervous system with embodied, heart-centered presence to help people move beyond fear, overthinking, and emotional numbness into authenticity and love. My approach creates a grounded, safe space where emotions can move and connection can deepen naturally.
In private sessions, I work with women through The Rewild Woman program - a journey of self-intimacy and embodied power. It helps women stop abandoning themselves, reclaim their pleasure, and choose relationships that feel like freedom, not survival.
Because when a woman stops abandoning herself, she doesn't just experience intimacy. She becomes it - with herself, with life, and with love.
Together we create a space that is safe, real, and deeply human - where healing and transformation happen naturally through presence, breath, and connection.
“Together they create a space that is safe, real, and deeply human - where healing and transformation happen naturally through presence, breath, and connection.”

Our Wall of Love
💕Real words from real participants — unedited, unscripted, straight from the heart.
“I have done workshops before, but nothing like this. Ritam and Charlotte create something rare, a space where you can actually feel your boundaries without anyone pushing them. I left with tools I use every single day.”
“Tonight I am rejoicing and feeling so at one with life and with my essence. Never before have I felt this so strongly. Thank you for diving so deep with me and co-creating such a safe environment which allowed me to shed some of the deepest, most dense layers of my being. It's magical and beautiful.”
“I came to this retreat because of stress, burnout, and seeking reconnection. I found a deep connection with myself and my husband.”
“I will cherish the memories we've shared, the deep talks we've had, and gazing into all of your beautiful eyes. Thank you for the warmth, the openness, and the safety. Glad this space exists and that we can keep this connection.”
“Thank you all so much for creating a safe and sacred space. The retreat opened up a lot more awareness and helped me to unlock my desires.”
“Thank you for giving me the space that I could live my true self. Thank you that our souls could meet deeply, play with each other, dance, feel, express, laugh and cry and love each other.”
Questions Answered
Frequently Asked Questions
Ready?
Your Transformation Starts Here
Join us in Bali for 4 days that could change how you experience yourself and connect with others.